Topics discuss online dating
Whether through choice of school programs and extracurricular activities in college (I was a public relations major and I was in a sorority, both of which required a certain level of communications skills), or fields of work post-graduation (I work in nonprofits which tend to not only attract a wide variety of employees, but also a very diverse clientele), I’ve mostly always been around people who are pretty decent at holding a conversation. Trying to talk to men on dating apps is so horrifically painful.I didn’t know it was possible for people to be so horrendous at conversation.I never realized how bad people are at conversation until I started using dating apps.
So, what do these 11% people talk about when they meet their potential mate online?I don’t know if these men are just HORRIBLE at conversation or just aren’t that interested in me (probably some of both depending on the person), but either way, in case people genuinely don’t know, I thought I would write some tips on having a conversation.Something I don’t think grown-ass people should need a lesson in, but apparently they do. Before I get started, I want to say, that I am a very straightforward person, who has no time or interest in the “games” or “rules” of dating.So, sharing a few witty one-liners and jokes is a great way of making the conversation more absorbing.Never try to be cheesy with your humor, and also avoid making fun of the person you are conversing with.