Older men live chat
I’ve been guilty of discounting some guys’ profiles because they weren’t active enough! Funny, my ex husband had (& still have more friends) than I do, however I do many more activities – I tend to do these activities on my own or with a couple female friends. Larry had just moved here when we met and didn’t have any friends.
I used to do stuff with male friends but realised I was being ‘used’! And he didn’t really keep in touch with the guys back home because they couldn’t DO stuff together anymore.
So sometimes our insecurity makes us assume quite incorrectly.
You got the words right: You LET it discourage you.
Below is the Facebook thread about why some older men seem so boring.
Little girls play house and play barbies (generally) that develops relational skills, while little boys play competitive things like sports or cops and robbers.But I recognize that younger men were pretty boring too before they dated me.LOL EM Bobbi I had forgotten I actually discuss this in my intro to communication class.The majority of men who are contacting her are old dudes; like in their 60s. In a Facebook post, Ann recently asked why older men seemed so boring and like they didn’t have a life.(Keep in mind that the women participating on my private Facebook page range in age from their late 30s to 70s.) I hear this often since I specialize in helping women over 40 find love. The answer is really about doing what I often do: Helping you better understand GROWNUP men.